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IDK if that test if 100% accurate though, as I've said, there could still be a possiblity that she just got pissed off for some reason and didn't answer me

Asking something without sentience or sapience whether it wants to be sentient and sapient does not make any sense.

Yes.

Basically you want to be super kind while you make her?

And, as has been asked before - @Deleted User. What is your actual goal here?

once a tulpa gains sentience you don't have to limit them

6:25 PM

goal:

love the thing
be loved by it
don't force anything on it

(edited)

6:26 PM

we're going into loops here

6:26 PM

just start making the tulpa elee. You don't have to force anything to make one.

Then... You can deliberately achieve the first and third, but not the second.

Literally just imagine the girl and talk to her, jeez.

6:26 PM

-Funk 2018

I would not create a tulpa for this reason, I would go find someone else to be in a romantic relationship with.

I agree with that.

NO

6:27 PM

I WANT MONIKA

Tulpas are not a replacement for reality.

I also agree but i saw his answer coming.

6:27 PM

ugh

....that's lovely. You can certainly make a tulpa, and deal with the results of your own actions.

6:28 PM

However, keep in mind that reality does not bend to desire alone.

You are creating a tulpa with the intent of having a romantic relationship, yet do not want to force anything on it.

Hey that's an important point.

I find those two to be contradictory.

I agree.

The tulpa mind end up acting differently than this monika and might not have a thing for you.

Indeed.

so keep it in mind.

6:28 PM

well, TBH, IDK

Are you prepared to deal with that possibility?

That's no guarantee that a tulpa based on the character you like will view you in any specific light, so I hope that you're prepared to deal with with maturely.

best way to put it is you'd be making a person.

6:29 PM

if you want a plaything (not to be rude), then just practicing servitor stuff is better.

6:29 PM

IDK if I don't wanna leave Monika as is

If not, I do not recommend making a tulpa - at the very least, not now. Be patient, try to figure out what you want more certainly if possible - or at least determine whether you can deal with the possible consequences of your actions.

I don't wanna turn it into the tulpa

6:29 PM

no

What do you want it to be?

6:30 PM

An imaginary girlfriend?

big kek

If you want that, that's fine.

An imaginary girlfriend wouldn't be too difficult to pull off but good luck with feeling loved.

That is no replacement for the real thing.

didn't alot of people report that their tulpas wanted a relationship out of their own volition

It isn't. There isn't anything wrong with it either, specifically.

It would be easy, but it will not love you like another person would.

there's a strange irony in this

6:31 PM

I'll leave it as is, okay

Alright, then.

Alright.

why have you made me figure out she can't truly love me?

6:32 PM

I feel... oddly heartbroken

Because we're being realistic.

because she's a fictional character.

Ah. We're rather focused on reality here.

Would you prefer a lie?

you can make a tulpa that looks like her and even then it won't be like IRL love. (If the tulpa even ends up loving you) (edited)

6:32 PM

It's better to know that than to be deluded

6:33 PM

IK and I agree... but it made me kinda sad

6:33 PM

i have a cure.

Of course it does.

play video games

That is a normal reaction, to feel sad.

6:34 PM

But a lie here would be unhealthy. If you know the truth, you can find someone who can love you.

To provide a counterpoint, you can still make a tulpa. However, you shouldn't force anything on them. Not form, gender, etc. Perhaps they'll develop romantic feelings, perhaps they won't, but don't make that your focus

IK

6:34 PM

fuck it

I'll be back later.

I'm staying with this strange illusion

Yes, that is true, but a relationship with a tulpa and a host, is far different from two separate people.

I'll try to keep myself deluded

6:35 PM

i advise against it.

6:35 PM

the deluded part, that is.

<Ponytail> In my experience, the unique, platonic relationship I have with my tulpas is far more fulfilling than the IRL girlfriends I've had. Romanticism is not the loftiest goal.

you can still enjoy yourself with the lucid dreaming and/or servitor

6:35 PM

but don't lose yourself

6:35 PM

ok buddy?

6:35 PM

...okay

6:36 PM

let me keep the servitor then, okay

6:36 PM

case closed

I see. I would certainly say I value my sisterlike relationship with my tulpa very much, to the point that I value it as much as I do my romantic relationship.

<Ponytail> I made a tulpa to deal with my depression (crucify me), and she did by loving me. It was never a romantic love, however it was much stronger and much more precious to me than anything I'd gotten from all my girlfriends in the past.

how cute.

<Ponytail> So, people coming here for gf tulpas I feel shouldn't be turned away, just refocused

I would certainly say that from my experience, my host and his tulpa who are dating, are almost nothing like a romantic relationship with another person. I would say my host values her romantic relationship as much as me and Angel do with our beloved.

wait, "ponytail" is just your tulpa-tag, right?

<Ponytail> I'm the host

ponytail

6:39 PM

do you have a ponytail

So, while it can be fulfilling, I would not go in expecting it to be much like a traditional relationship.

<Ponytail> as of right now, no, but I do have long hair.

why aren't you Longhair instead

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6:40 PM

@Bethel🌸 can you introduce your tulpas?

6:40 PM

TELL ME A STORY

This conversation is not appropriate for here, Funk.

a story

<Ponytail> um, sure. Though I feel other channels would be better for this?

k, let's move to #tulpa-discussion then

<Ponytail> sounds good